This is something I've been working on. I'm sure we've all experienced being ignored and feeling let down. Get over your self-pity; there is no time in this life for such nonsense!
That, in my opinion, is fine. It is not your concern to be concerned about what other people are thinking. Telling yourself a new story about what is happening is usually the most effective way to cope with disappointment.
The disappointment is our own, not someone else's. Take back control of the situation, stop putting so much pressure on yourself and others, and stop putting so many expectations on others.
I've read a lot of posts about how to let go of toxic people. Yes, it's always a good idea to surround yourself with positive people. And let us not forget that toxic individuals may not even be aware that they are toxic. Again, our reaction to something or someone is determined by how we tell ourselves the story.
Maybe it's something that comes with age and going through situations where we realize it's okay to say, 'Not today,' because I'm happy with who I am and who I've become.
It is beneficial to learn to accept not being invited, included, or considered. Simply stay in the present moment. Is it really that important that you weren't invited or considered, maybe it was for the better anyways? Not Everything is meant for your path in this life.
Everything works out in the end if we live in a world of Love, Peace, Joy, and Gratitude.
Take care of yourself and stay out of other people's business when it comes to what they are thinking or not thinking about you.
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